International Women's Day 2024
A Poem for Every Woman
This poem is for every
woman.
It's for every woman who
has had an idea ignored
and listened to the
applause when a man suggested the same thing.
It's for every woman who's
been told she's too plain or too pretty,
too fat, too thin, too
stupid or too clever.
It's for every woman who's
walked home
alone and scared in the
dark
with her keys in her hand
and her phone at the ready
and quickened her pace as
the steps speeded behind her.
It's for every woman who's
been cat-called,
derided, belittled,
harassed
and gone home weeping
and whose story has not
been heard.
It's for Sarah and it's
for Giulia
and it's for Tina. It's
for the woman
who was nearly my
mother-in-law,
whose husband hit her
every day
and left her lying in the
grate.
It's for Jo and the women
MPs
afraid for their safety,
less for their beliefs
than because it's women
who dare to hold them -
in the United Kingdom, of
all countries.
It's for the women who
raise awareness,
it's for the writers –
for Maya, for Dacia,
for Gloria, Simone and
Toni
and so many others.
It's for the 1950s and 60s
women
forced to give away their
illegitimate children
and never see them again -
- children like me.
It's for the 2020s women,
hostages, soldiers,
medics, dissidents,
wives, mothers, facing
war, starvation, enduring loss,
in scenarios we believed
expunged from our era.
It's for you, Yulia
Navalnya.
It's for the women who
have
no access to education and
read in secret
and the women who fight
for them. So it's for you,
Malala.
It's for every woman whose
needs are dismissed
because she's single or
childless or old
or different in some way
and does not know where to
sit
at the laden festive
table.
It's for Janey and the
women who make us laugh,
it's for the women who
hold us up,
the women who love with us
and the women who cry with us.
It's for all the women who
fear
and all the women who dare
and the women who fear
because they dare.
This poem is for every
woman.
Notes
Sarah
Everard – kidnapped
and killed, aged 33, as she was walking home in London on 3rd
March 2021.
Giulia
Cecchettin - brutally killed, aged 22, by her ex-boyfriend in Italy
on 11th
November 2023.
Tina
Turner (1939-2023) – singer and songwriter who was abused by her
first husband.
MPs –
Members of Parliament.
Helen
Joanne “Jo” Cox - British Member of Parliament who was shot and
stabbed to death in Birstall, Yorkshire, UK, by a man with far-right
views on 16th June 2016.
Maya
Angelou (1928 – 2014) – American writer and civil rights
activist.
Dacia
Maraini (b. 1936) – Italian writer focussing on women's issues.
Gloria
Steinem (b. 1934) – American journalist and a leader of US
second-wave feminism.
Simone
de Beauvoir (1908-1986) – French feminist existentialist writer and
political activist.
Toni
Morrison (1931-2019) – American writer and Nobel Laureate focussing
on the Black female experience in the US.
Yulia
Borisnovna Navalnya (b. 1976) – economist and widow of Russian
dissident Alexei Navalny (d. 2024). She has vowed to continue her
husband's work and on 28th February 2024, speaking in
English, she addressed the European Parliament.
Malala
Yousafzai (b. 1997) – Pakistani activist focussing on the rights of
girls and women to education. She was shot and very seriously injured
in 2012 while on her way home from school. She is the youngest Nobel
Laureate.
Janey
Godley (b. 1961) – Scottish comedian and writer.
© Pat M. Eggleton 2024
Happy International Women's Day! Buona Festa della Donna!